Monday, March 1, 2010
Brain Changer
Evenin'
This link IS to a great Listen
The Teen Brain: It's Just Not Grown Up Yet : NPR
IT brought back memories of this powerless uncle (Me) a frustrated mother (my sister Candace), appealing for advice from someone with child rearing experience (Our Mother),
The child in question was 14 years old then, she is now a mother of two great kids. Making me a grand powerless Uncle 14 years later. Anyhow the tears were flowing mixed with flashbacks of another 14 year old girl, who threw a party that caused a traffic jam that I had nothing to do with but enjoyed just as much. It had WOW factor all over it, the family back yard was full of folks from Crescent Park, Kennedy Park, Ridge Park & PBR Pounders, Herb was in abundance, it's essence wafting like an early fog. She Did GREAT!!! The music from the family stereo suddenly silenced and an irate figure, attempted an authoritive scream of "EVERYONE OUT" Next to me someone asked "Who the Fuck is that?" "My Dad" I calmly replied as I said goodbye to my Chilly PBR. ( Bummer) is what I thought (Now What?)
Folks wished everyone well and filed out comfortably like a concert had just ended.The Traffic Jam in front on Seeley thinned and in an hour there was another End of Summer Evening on that Maple Tree Lined Street.
18 years later the girl is crying to her mother, about her 14 year old daughter. "I don't know what to do!!!" (neither did I.) Then turning, in the vestibule of the WOW party site, with a slight inhale to speak, Mom says, "Dear, the only thing a parent can wish on their children is for them to have children."
Made sense to me didn't bring solace to my sis, but it did stop the sobbing.(powerless)
The NPR Link for me compiles all this together with certitude.
We were Teen agers too, And now we have them, and they will have some as well During growth hopefully we will not categorize, compartmentalize, constrain change.
It is part of how our Brains develop.
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Vascular Reminder
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
It just gets better
You are reading from the book Today's Gift
You will jump to it someday. Then you'll fly. You'll really fly. After that you'll quite simply, quite calmly make your own stones, your own floor plan, your own sound.
—Anne Sexton
A young man sat beside a whispering creek all day for years, never moving. The townsfolk who watched him wondered whether he heard the gurgling creek sounds, or felt the sting of insects, or saw the raccoons when they came at night to sip from the cool, dark waters.
One day the young man rose and dashed up the hill above the creek. There, using all the healing strength of the stream, which he had quietly absorbed over the years, he gathered stones. He arranged them layer-by-layer to fit the plan he had thought out by the creek, and feverishly he built his home. When done, he let out a brassy, booming holler of joy. Imagine the townsfolk's surprise when they turned their eyes to that lonely spot by the creek and saw a huge castle of stone above the place where the young man once rested.
What plans can I make during my idle hours today?
From Today's Gift: Daily Meditations for Families ©1985, 1991 by Hazelden Foundation. All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America. No portion of this publication may be reproduced in any manner without the written permission of the publisher.
Introduction/Overview of Brain Disorders
- Dr. Susan Hockfield
Mriganka Sur - May 4, 2009
- Running Time: 0:25:38
“At MIT we love bold experiments, the kind that change the rules, and we have an impressive record of making bets that win. That fearless experimental spirit coupled with intense collaboration among investigators, with the support of philanthropic friends, is exactly what will drive us to next level in brain research.”
P.S. 2 We All need to Know our Surroundings